Nollywood actress, Etinosa Idemudia has revealed why girls defend their abusive husbands.
In line with the controversial Instagram celeb, it’s not straightforward for a lady to depart an abusive husband as they’re manipulative. She revealed that she survived home violence in her much less 2 years marriage, however is glad she is in a greater place now.
Etinosa made this identified whereas reacting to alleged home violence by former minister, Femi Fani-Kayode on his spouse, treasured.
Learn her publish beneath…
“Eyaa that is so painful to look at. Bringing again unhealthy reminiscences this early morning. Learn on a weblog that the person made this video to debunk Sahara reporters first claims of home violence. You’ll be able to even hear him saying it within the video plus “are you videoing” “have you ever completed it” clearly staged in an try at harm management. The girl is barely responding take a look at her eyaa. I went additional to learn feedback and folks had been saying that why did the lady be a part of him to make the quilt up video smh clearly you don’t know marriage, the ability a person has over his spouse. A spouse he is aware of loves him. You don’t find out about threats,
manipulations and so forth As a spouse who signed marriage for all times you start to ask your self in the event you solid your husband, your crown, what is going to develop into of you and your marriage; some males will even quote Bible for you and inform you a sensible girl builds her residence however a silly Girl pulls it down together with her personal palms. He’ll inform you, no one is ideal do you assume different girls solid their husbands? We’ll settle it in home; inform you all types of manipulating issues then your in legal guidelines will come and nonetheless speak their very own so you’ll cowl up. You need to be the proverbs 31 girl. The virtuous girl. You’ll cowl up. Have you learnt what number of cowl up I did in lower than 2 years of my very own? I used to be rushed to emergency Ward, had oxygen fastened, struggling for my life, the bastard got here and informed me to lie for him as a result of he might lose his job and why will I be answerable for the downfall of my husband so proper
there on the hospital mattress I lied to who might have saved me. I bear in mind the person was so offended with me cos he knew I used to be mendacity (let me depart unhealthy reminiscences abeg I’m in a greater place endlessly) in conclusion mehn you younger single individuals particularly small small women ought to maintain quiet and pray you don’t get into such scenario; once you see a girl defending her abusive companion and later come out to cry out no be her clear eye. she lastly determined to get up and select LIFE over society, over what is going to individuals say, over MARRIAGE”
Paul Oke: I’m uninterested in all this nonsense. Each time home violence, make una allow us to hear phrase. We face lot of violence on a regular basis from boss, troopers, individuals in energy, verbal violence, this women in query might need been the one which raised the primary hand to problem, they won’t speak about how they induced it they’ll solely blame some one for it, certainly earlier than marriage you need to know who you’re getting married to. All people out right here making males the monster like say women don’t do shit If women are to be stronger than males the violence would have been greater than this.
Star Emele: They maintain defending cos of worry of leaving probably due to what individuals will say or possibly due to their kids however the query is will u maintain defending until u die the primary beating is sufficient to up and depart cos u will get one other beat belief me
Emmanuella Chioma: Who else have observed that each Nigerian feminine celebrities declare they suffered home violence.
A few of them are simply not submissive that’s fact, if the boys ought to come out and communicate now, we will likely be shocked what,we heard isn’t what occurred.
Am not supporting the boys, however the fact a few of these feminine celebrities, you’ll be able to’t stick with them, lets neglect what we see on display, their actual selves are once you meet them one on one.
Chynagorom Silver: Should each celeb expertise home violence in marriage? I feel you guys have one factor in widespread that all the time result in that. Most of you’ll be able to’t simply be submissive to your husbands, all the time rubbing shoulders with him as a result of you’re a public determine.
Gaddafi Sankara: Imagine me ,if males ought to open up what they’re passing via in marriage..you’ll perceive why they mentioned.. being a person will not be a day Job…
For me..in the event you abuse me, everyone go hear am
Onyemauchechi Okorie: what do you anticipate? once you flip your self to gold digger and fall into the flawed hand, what had been u anticipating earlier than???? if solely this our these days women will ever study as a result of all what they’re after this days ain’t real love however cash..